Re: can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?
My mother will not listen no matter how much I tell her to. Sometimes I pray to Allah that if he is not going to make the situation better for us, at least take my mum to him so she does not suffer any more.
That may sound like the most horrible thing to say but i am not being selfish
Thanks 
for the link, will be an interesting read 