can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

[coffeegirl]

Re: can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

@terebina786

I’m not sure if this is a possibility, but since you are the oldest and I think at 17 are still considered a youth… Can you get any kind of social services involved to remove yourself and your sisters from the house? The only reason I wouldn’t do this is because of leaving your mother there but they could probably work to get all of you out - mom included. That’s what I would do in this situation mostly because I’ve read several stories of girls like you, living in situations like yours and they wind up dead at the hands of their father and aided by their mother and siblings out of fear.

At this point I wouldn’t trust any family (uncles, aunts, cousins, etc).. they’re more likely to rat you out and get you in more trouble. But that’s just my opinion.

Aunties and everyone are in Pakistan and I don’t talk to them often but I can guess, they would rat me out as I’m a sorta free passport for their sons…which is what my dad does not seem to be getting!!

I am 18 so legally an adult. My mum will not leave, I have tried to persuade her so much.