can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

[coffeegirl]

Re: can I have some advice from people who may be known to this problem?

@Roshni

Before you go have a plan of wat you will do if u r forced into marriage. Its highly likely that you will be. Isnt that the reason for going???.

Inform high commission before you leave and even other agencies who can provide you protection. Dont go. Simple. I know its hard to standup to ur parents. Bt you dnt know where you will endup.

Recently in aus a girl of some ethnic background had same issue. With the help of her school teachers she went to court and her detail was put on control exist list (watever its called). When she tried to leave with her father to get married, she couldnt leave the country.

Wats ur mums stand on this?

Yes I already have a plan of what i will do if I am forced. Every single thing in the plan has been finalized hundreds of times.

My mum wants the best for us and also said, she would not welcome anyone from outside the family because she just would not get along (I’m not worried about my mum, she is easy to persuade but she says, the marriage thing is good because you will have to get married some day and also its a sunnat and stuff like that.