So then I have to ask , you don’t think that makes you a hypocrite? That you expect someone to have exhibited self control when you can’t do the same yourself for your weaknesses?
I don’t think anyone here is judging you for wanting a girl who has been conservative in her interactions with men and better yet has had none. It’s your lack of understanding for another persons circumstances and not seeing the bigger picture which is clouded by a clash of culture and religious beliefs.
I am a woman and there are many on here so isn’t it against Islam that your talking to us online ? Online or in person, what difference does it make? Your still engaging with us. Does Islam have rules on this or will we continue to stay ignorant?