Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

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Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

@Sara516

I think what she means is…if you’re so religious, you would be a better, kinder, more forgiving person…being religious should make you stronger and have more patience. When you fail to become those things, and instead are hard-hearted and harsh…all the things you do in the name of religion begin to mean nothing:
prayer = acrobats
Beard = goatee
saving yourself = an excuse.

Virginity, saving yourself etc, doesn’t make you a better person if you treat others badly.

i get it. but being religious doesn’t mean you stop being human, it doesn’t mean not wanting certain traits in a life partner.

Should a “religious girl” (read ba-ikhlaaq, kind, forgiving) be expected to be ok with being lied to? say she wanted a guy with a certain level of education (and a decent income) or wanted to live separately/ wanted to work post marriage, etc and made these demands clear in her rishta hunting process… only to find out post-marriage she was lied to… how should she be expected to react? because she’s “religious”, she should forgive & forget the lie, suck it up and move on considering her partner is otherwise ok as a husband?