Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

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Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

@Captain_Obvious

There’s nothing unreasonable in what he wants. Hypothetically speaking, if he were to make everything clear to the girl beforehand, then he found out she wasn’t what he wanted, I couldn’t judge him for ending things. I believe in second chances and all, but this would be something that affects him and not me so he would have to deal with it. Then again, wouldn’t a girl also have a problem being married to a guy who has that problem being married to her? There are after all guys out there who are ready to overlook this kind of thing while others may not be.

Deen covers many aspects. Treating people right while not praying isn’t going to make up for that deficiency and vice versa. Saving yourself, though it might also have to do with culture, is the way to go according to deen as well. I can’t judge math’s intentions (neither can anybody else here for that matter), so I have to assume it’s the right one. I think right now, math, this is not the time to be thinking of a divorce before you’ve even gotten married or seriously looking at a potential. As per my understanding, you’ve met two and they didn’t suit your requirements. What I would suggest is that you end things there and move on. Just focus on what you’re looking for. What you’re asking for is neither unreasonable nor impossible to find, so keep looking and continue making lots of dua. May Allah find you the one you’ll be happy with and who will be happy with you.

Jazak Allah Khair for the advice bro. Really grateful.