Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

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Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

@Reha

It is unreasonable to divorce someone because of a past that is long over and done with.

I don’t understand this about people who are very religious or claim to be very religious. Islam is supposed to make you a better, kinder and more forgiving person. Your connection with Allah swt is supposed to give you more sabr and strength. When your faith fails to touch your heart and reflect in the treatment of those around you, I believe it stops being about your faith. It becomes acrobats on a rug. A beard could be a goatee. ** Saving yourself could be another way of saying no one you liked wanted you.

Saving yourself is sort of a part of Pakistani culture **. The OP is just a very cultured guy but I don’t believe this requirement of his has anything to do with Islam. Its just desi.

wow, really?

so exactly how do we not-save-ourselves prior to marriage? please enlighten me with Islamic references.