Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

@Sara516

I think divorcing someone over a past relationship is hard hearted.

I think there is such a vast definition to “premarital” relationships.
Yes, for most it can be someone who was in a physical relationship. But it can also include someone who simply had feelings for someone that didn’t lead to marriage.

Someone in another thread mentioned that she was previously nikkahed but it broke off and then her engagement broke off because the family refused to have someone who’d been in a previous relationship as their son’s wife. So for some, it can even include marriage/engagement.

I don’t think its unreasonable to want a virgin IF you’ve saved yourself as well (not including divorcees/widows here), but to divorce over just that IS harsh and hard hearted.

There is so much more to a marriage than just this.

Well he is someone who has saved himself so it’s not unreasonable for him to have the requirement. Girls like (saved themselves no prior relationships etc.) also often want someone who not only hasn’t gotten into physical relationships with girls before marriage, but haven’t had girlfriends beforehand, period. Especially if he’s looking in a purely arranged setting, I don’t think he’s being harsh or hard hearted here.