No, I’m saying what the assumptions are for a woman who has had pre-martial relationships and is therefore not a virgin. I’m not saying that she’ll make a suitable wife or not. What I am saying is that I know there’s more than just virginity in determining if a woman will make a suitable wife or not. And I’m saying that it is possible to find one who is both.
Of course. While those quality don’t guarantee a great husband, many great husbands do also possess those qualities. So for someone whom these things are important, they don’t need to settle for people who don’t have these qualities. That’s all I’m saying.
I can say the same thing about men who have a good education, lots of wealth and come from families that are known for their wealth and status. So having certain things that you look for doesn’t mean that they’ll have everything you want. But that doesn’t mean that girls will stop including these types of things in their list of requirements for their potential husbands.