Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

[Captain_Obvious]

Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital

@Reha

No, its not an unreasonable requirement at all. I feel piety is not the cookie cutter definition. I know a few virgins who would backstab you with no hesitation. What good did this abstinence do for them? Did it make them a God fearing person? Did Allah swt touch their hearts? Um no. It almost seems like they got lucky due to their environments. Is that piety? I find it hard to buy that a person who might abstain from sex is more pious than someone who might have given into that temptation in life at some point but has done more good around them than the virgin if that makes any sense - I am sure it doesn’t/

Who is more pious, only Allah knows. We can only make assumptions/decisions based on what we know. A girl being a virgin before marriage doesn’t guarantee overall piety. But a girl not being one, particularly due to pre-marital relationships does show that she wasn’t at that particular point at least and has crossed a limit which the virgin hasn’t. While there may be cases like the ones you described, it is still very possible to find a girl who hasn’t crossed those boundaries and who will still make an ideal wife/companion. Nobody has to be stuck having to choose between the mean, backstabbing virgin or the kind, good hearted non-virgin.