Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
Since you didn’t find the definition precise enough, you conveniently chose to mold it to your liking? No one is completely evil, or pious. Even the worst of us have done our fair share of good deeds. How shallow of you to suggest that people who have constantly fought the temptation are not any better than the ones who haven’t just because you know a few virgins who aren’t pious enough otherwise. Should that seal the argument then? Well I know a few non-virgins who would stick a knife in your back at the first opportunity. There.
Why should we assume that abstinence is the only good thing a virgin has ever done, and the non-virgin is a saint of a person? How about an ‘all-else-equal’ comparison? Like me, a person doesn’t even have to be religious to find pre-marital sex wrong. I am a compulsive liar who believes in recycling, does it make me more pious than someone who doesn’t recycle? Is a pedophile who gives away millions to cancer research more pious than all of us combined then?
Abstinence demonstrates character, morality and self-control. Like I said earlier, if they have done it in the past, what is stopping them from doing it again? How would you know that they have repented? You wouldn’t know. There is no way you’d know.