Re: Can I find a girl who hasnt had a pre marital
No, its not an unreasonable requirement at all. I feel piety is not the cookie cutter definition. I know a few virgins who would backstab you with no hesitation. What good did this abstinence do for them? Did it make them a God fearing person? Did Allah swt touch their hearts? Um no. It almost seems like they got lucky due to their environments. Is that piety? I find it hard to buy that a person who might abstain from sex is more pious than someone who might have given into that temptation in life at some point but has done more good around them than the virgin if that makes any sense - I am sure it doesn’t/