Spock
April 10, 2011, 2:13am
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Re: can husband/man change his bad behaviour…
there’s no excuse for him to be abusive physically or abusive in any way
all i’m saying is that we don’t have all sides of the story here and we don’t know how her husband is really and his anger level, i guess she can get the help of her loved ones to bring law enforcement into the picture. it is a difficult decision to do something so drastic for somebody she might love, this her life we’re talking about and we don’t know her or how old she is or anything much more about this situation then what she’s told us so it’s easier said than done, it’s just so traumatizing for anybody if this is really happening to her.
if you look at my previous comments, i never said that she should be quiet about this, this is not just a boyfriend or fiance, this is a husband so i feel like she needs to collect a lot of strength(emotional and psychological) to take all of these difficult steps one at a time and get ready for the most extreme of decisions which is divorce.
There’s no excuse and no need for any sides of the stories… if he hits her, he hits her, and thats a crime… , she shouldnt rely on anyone, she should call the cops herself… if only men would realize what the consequence of hitting a woman are, they wont indulge in abusive behavior…