can husband/man change his bad behaviour.....

[Nisha25]

Re: can husband/man change his bad behaviour…

@Spock

See, what you said is what defines weakness in women. Trust me, if his arse gets thrown in jail, HE will be the one fearing her! And whats wrong in others knowing about it, esp if the consequence to hide this is getting beat up? He wont get angry when hes visited jail, and would do his best to make sure he doesnt end up there. Women like yourself should be urging other women not to stay quiet, and you’re actually trying to justify them being quiet about their abusive husbands.

There is a reason why such a law exists, and its to protect physically weaker women from all this crap! Know your rights yo!

there’s no excuse for him to be abusive physically or abusive in any way

all i’m saying is that we don’t have all sides of the story here and we don’t know how her husband is really and his anger level, i guess she can get the help of her loved ones to bring law enforcement into the picture. it is a difficult decision to do something so drastic for somebody she might love, this her life we’re talking about and we don’t know her or how old she is or anything much more about this situation other than what she’s told us so it’s easier said than done, it’s just so traumatizing for anybody if this is really happening to her.

if you look at my previous comments, i never said that she should be quiet about this, this is not just a boyfriend or fiance, this is a husband so i feel like she needs to collect a lot of strength(emotional and psychological) to take all of these difficult steps one at a time and get ready for the most extreme of decisions which is divorce.