can husband/man change his bad behaviour.....

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Re: can husband/man change his bad behaviour…

@Nisha25

abusive men that verbally abuse or taunt and physically hurt their SO have major control and anger issues. i can say from being around a man like that in college, that i bet she’s scared of him and of calling the police and in turn putting him in jail. when he is finally let free this is somebody that knows everything about her, she has to deal with this person if he does get angrier from the action of putting him in jail and the shame that he will feel.

I feel like it won’t be something that would cause him to change, it would just bring out more anger in him. a bit concerned for her safety if that was done

See, what you said is what defines weakness in women. Trust me, if his arse gets thrown in jail, HE will be the one fearing her! And whats wrong in others knowing about it, esp if the consequence to hide this is getting beat up? He wont get angry when hes visited jail, and would do his best to make sure he doesnt end up there. Women like yourself should be urging other women not to stay quiet, and you’re actually trying to justify them being quiet about their abusive husbands.

There is a reason why such a law exists, and its to protect physically weaker women from all this crap! Know your rights yo!