Two days ago I dreamed something and I just cant stop thinking about it!
I dreamed that I had a relationship with someone (Husband & wife relationship) someone who I know in real life. While in real life he is already married. In my dream I have a very loving relationship with him. when I woke up I could hardly believe that I had dreamed it was such a beautiful dream. While I do not even love the man, but I admit that I ever had a crush on him (Oops) but in that time he was not married and he is about 8 years older then me. But I did not already have feelings for him. Any way I had great feelings for him in my dream and had it seemed so real and that he loved me so much and cared about me.
And to highlight: those feelings for him did not stop because he got married and had long been stopped, I had only a temporary crush on him.
So I do not think that dream something has to do with my feelings because I feel nothing for him now but what I really wonder why I dreamed about him all of a sudden?
Dreams are not always to be taken literally and they're not always an indication of what's to happen in the future. Many times the contents of your dream represent your fears and desires in the real world. Your dream could simply be a reflection of your desire to have a loving and stable relationship with a guy in general (not necessarily this particular individual).
Read my post above. Zaroori nahin hai k jo khawab main dekha hai ussay literally liya jaye. (Uh, how do you say literally in Urdu ? )
For example, let’s say that you dream that you murder someone you know. That doesn’t mean that you should kill that person in real life. Your dream might just be a reflection of your feelings in real life; feelings such as anger, stress, revenge, extreme frustration.
There may be other dreams in which you may have found yourself with people that you know, or in strange places, and odd situations. That doesn’t mean that these things will happen in real life.
Also, there is a hadith that dreams can be from Allah and they can also be from shaitan. Tum kuch ziyada hi importance de rahi ho is dream ko. Kyun? Tum khudi keh rahi ho k you have no romantic feelings for this guy and you also know that he is married. If you’re not interested in him (and especially since he’s married and you consider him off limits), why let this dream bother you so much? Move on to more important things that will make a bigger difference in your life.
Dreams will come from three places ... Allah (SWT), Shaitan and Our own desires ...
This seems this is category 3 ... The reason why you may have had the dream is that although consciously you have convinced yourself that you do not feel anything for this man, subconsciously you are still not over him ... So a dream manifested ... you subconscious is trying to wake you up to this probably ...
:k: That’s a good point. It could indeed be that she’s not completely over him. Not to say that she should act upon those feelings (IF she still has them).
I’m sure you can have such dreams past the age of 20 as well
i keep on reading your title as "can anyone explain this drama please"
That is not funny because Many times I dreamed something and things happen afterwards they have à connection with My dreams.
And Dont think That I posted this topic because I am taking the Meaning of the dream literally And like I am waiting that somone would say that your dream means: In the future you will marry him & à Happy ending lovestory (hahaha).
I know That meanings of dreams are mostly not literally infact
there is à kind of twist in it because I have known someone who had à book of meanings wich are told by The Holy Prophet (S.A.W.)
sometimes when we dream about a person in a good way, its because we like certain characteristics of theirs, it doesnt mean you want that person, it just means you want some part of their characteristics. For instance, you mentioned that you had a loving relationship in the dream. Maybe you see him as the ideal hisband, and you would want to marry someone who has the same traits as him or the same personality. Try not to read too much into it, most of the time our dreams mean nothing at all.
When I was still in school, I had a dream that I beat up a guy from my class, and then the whole week I felt really weird around him, but I had no ill feelings towards him in real life, it was just a useless dream.
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BHAHAHHA.
