Re: Can a trust…
Well i don’t see how discussing it privately with ur husband/wife is bad manners and i hardly believe it cud be prohibited…the problem is a personal one between the married couple and shud be dealt with accordingly, between them and no one else…the alternative, obviously (adultery, etc.) is wot is considered much worse, i think…
Well IF divorce is considered a serious crime in our *culture, *then personally i cudn't care less...it's not a crime in our *religion* (as far as i know) so that's all we need to be aware of...and of course no one *wants* to get divorced, but it happens...
I think perhaps u r talking about wayyy back in the days…thesedays, couples (with a good relationship) are very active in solving their own personal problems and i don’t think society or culture shuns them, cos they don’t even know (if the couple has kept their issues private)…besides, forget wot the problem is about, i think couples are encouraged to work out their problems thesedays…gone are the days when one spouse shoves dirt under the rug, and the other turns a blind eye 