Re: Can a trust...
I think the difference is in the way of thinking. I remember a study done by Stanford University on (Un)Acceptablity of Betrayal, it talks about male and female from young adults to grown up and how they react when a betryal is done. Also about the betrayal of friendship and in a sexual relationship. The result showed a double standard judged by males. It said that sexual betrayal by male transgressors is much more acceptable than sexual betrayal by female transgressors. The interesting part of the research was that young adult women no longer accept the double standard-- they report that sexual betrayal is unaccceptable regardless it is carried out by male or female transgressors.
What you are trying to say is that females who are betrayed shouldn't feel bad as it is his fault only and what I am trying to say is that regardless of age or sexual orientation one should look at the possiblities of betrayal. May be the justification surrounds the acceptablity of betrayal like lack of sexual acitivity, communication and understanding etc. By asking yourself these question one would be able to actually understand what they were not able to provide their partner or friend in that relationship. If they don't find any solid reason then you can say that it is their fault. If you find one then you can reform yourself and look for imporvments, which is a part of 'growing up' process.
