can a Syed SUNII Girl marry a non-syed boy??

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this is by far the best response I have read to the topic thusfar.

i myself come from a Syed family and while our family prefers to marry within Syeds they are not completely against it nor have i ever heard that it is haram to do so

i would also like to point out for the OP that shia-ism and sunni-ism are belief systems whereas syed is sort of a cast what your family’s lineage is

not all syeds are sunnis and not all are shias
similarly not all shias are syeds and not all sunnis are syeds

you can be a syed but you can also be shia, sunni, wahabi etc
similarly you can be a shaikh or jatt and also be shia, sunni, wahabi

am I making sense ? lol

but yeah it is not haram for a syed to marry a non syed it is just that some syed familys prefer to marry their offspring into syed families… matter of personal preference

haram is like if someone married their muslim daughter off to a nonmuslim man … or if a muslim family decided all they want to eat is pork … syed girl or syed boy marrying a non syed is not a sin and therefore it is certainly not haram

Peace sister

May Allah (SWT) shower his blessings on you, the best response belongs to cricketplaya who quoted from a reference of an 'alim, I merely tried to explain why, because I saw that people read what the 'alim wrote and drew their own perspectives and could not see the other view clearly.

I guess before we jump in to condemn based on our own visions we should ask ourselves from what perspective is something being said, and try to put ourselves in a different mindset. We should not cast our thoughts but try to read the thoughts of others. We should try hard to have good opinions of others which will then enable us to see the light of the angle of argumentation from other perspectives. I fail on this all the time myself so I am no different.