1.If the couple is always arguing with each other even before marriage.
2. The boy doubts girl or vice-versa
3. They have nothing in common..no habit, like dislike etc.
4. One of them is quite extrovert and other is an anti-social person..
I think if both partners are sincere and love each other then obstacles can be overcome. The only point that concerns me is the bit about "doubt". A relationship should not be built upon doubt but trust. So if doubts exist then that is a serious issue.
My husband and I are very different from each other. But we do have the same “core” values such as raising the kids, religious understanding, family commitments, life goals etc… Our choice of music, movies, social life, etc…is completely different. However, we’ve learned to compromise and meet half way…well not really as he doesn’t ever see the types of movies I like , but I’ve started to enjoy what he likes and he’s made adjustments towards some things I love and he doesn’t care for much… I think the reasons for that is that we love to see each other happy. We can never be exactly the same and if we were…it would be quite boring.
One word of caution: If you analyze every characteristic and virtue of your partner, you’d be killing each other’s personality. Don’t look for differences.
I think if both partners are sincere and love each other then obstacles can be overcome. The only point that concerns me is the bit about "doubt". A relationship should not be built upon doubt but trust. So if doubts exist then that is a serious issue.
one who Listens to others (who love to disturb ones life and then enjoy whole drama) and doubts the other half.
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how to make such person realise that others are not his/her well-wishers?**
aww.. hiding remote while he is watching his favourite one is a good idea..you should try
now am serious :-l
the word of caution… differing personality traits make the life full of challenges that i think is very good for a healthy life. But how to resolve the thing thats call doubt biggest of all evils
Doubts are not good. You need to ask him why he has those doubts...what has caused him to have them.
as i have mentioned in a post...
listing to those who love to "pour oil on the fire" is the major problem. how to make him realise that they are not his well wishers?