Can a Man Invite His Parents To Live With Him?

[MissTY]

Re: Can a Man Invite His Parents To Live With Him?

@goddamniamsoawesome

It seriously worries me how much we Pakistanis have come hate our culture and our values. Change isn’t always good. It seems by progress we mean (And I hate using this phrase but you lot forced me) mirroring the West. Why do we have to change or adjust or get-in-line? Are we that uncomfortable in our skin? Do we feel that inadequate? Our religion/culture is a great thing.

What is the POINT in following a culture thats going to cause drama and interfere in privacy of a couple?? It’s time to move and think for ourselves rather than blindly following what our ridiculous culture teaches us. Why should women have to deal with this crap?

If you want to turn this religious, it is the husband’s obligation to provide and care for his wife and parents. Now it is the wife’s decision if she wants to live with her in-laws or separately. Now if the husband cannot afford to provide a second home for his wife, she’s just being difficult, whats a guy supposed to do? If he can afford it and still wants his parents in his home, she should be willing enough to help him out. Yeah, sure she doesn’t have to care for them and if they can afford a nurse/carer then that’s ideal.

So he should have discussed this prior to marriage. He should marry a woman whos willing to put up with his parents.