Can a Man Invite His Parents To Live With Him?

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Re: Can a Man Invite His Parents To Live With Him?

@Deeba1234

Firstly, not living with inlaws isn’t ‘copying the west’, pretty much NO-ONE does it bar Pakistanis, Indians and Bangladeshis. Don’t know why people who favour living in joint families always make it out to be a East V West or Muslim V Non-Muslim type thing..

Err are you that uninformed? A hell lot of Asian, African, South American, East European and some families in Western Europe, North America and Australia live in a ‘joint family system’. And I’m not saying its a versus thing. I’m just saying we don’t need to copy them. I guess it depends on your family. So I’m not one to comment on that.

@Deeba1234

Secondly when mentioning religion u conveniently forgot to mention the man has an Islamic obligation to give his wife space and privacy - at the very least their own bedroom, bathroom and her own place to cook, free from the interference of others which most don’t do when they move their wives in.. if he can’t even manage those basics he prob isn’t ready to marry.

I didn’t ‘conveniently forget’ that. In fact I mentioned what you just said. I guess you were too riled up to notice that my comment supports your stance. So like blaze one or something, calm down will you!

@Deeba1234

Sons **and **daughters have a duty to look after their parents but that doesn’t mean they have to live in their homes their whole lives, it’s perfectly possible to live 5 or 10 minutes down the road and make sure they are ok and not lonely. If you’re going to mention religion in Islam the joint family is discouraged rather than promoted.

Sigh Where is Islam is it discouraged? I was never discussing Islam here in case you missed what I was trying to say. I’m not the one talking about Islam. Its a few of you lot that are.

And to all the women who want to talk about Islam, come back to me when you’re following Islam properly. Oh wait, don’t come back to me since you’re not allowed to talk to non-mehram!