… if they are pretty much happy wid each other and their family, im not talking abt affair im talking abt emotional attachment wid someone else?
i know no one is gona come out n say they did fall in love wid someone other than their spouse on a pakistani forum but i still wana know..did anyone fall in love or meet their true soulmate after they got married?
*i personally believe love is not not so eternal that u experience just once..i think u can have ONLY one partner (ur husband) but even if u want u cnt control how u feel for someone else ((im not married so i may jus be completely wrong))
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
I've fallen in love a number of times after I married my prince...
the thing is...I fell in love with him all over again.
If one falls in love with another then theres serious trouble with the marriage. I think that anyone can indeed fall in love with another but if things are all good at home then theres no way that it would happen. An unhappy home opens up all kinds of possibilities up to and including falling in love with someone else.
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
Exactly as Mo3 said , when one truly loves their partner , its next to impossible to see someone else as your soulmate .. but say you feel like that for someone then obviously you have two choices , either to get out of your current marriage or try to enhance communication wiht your current partner and give your relationship that depth you are seeking in others...
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
I thought I fell in love with my husband before we got married..but true love happens with time, when you seriously cannot live without each other, when you become selfless and when your head and heart speak the same language.
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
I wonder the same thing all the time..but the chances of falling in love with someone else shouldn't be too high if you're completely satisfied with your spouse. And I agree with Niksik that true love happens with time. Passionate love inevitably decreases with time whereas compassionate love grows. So in a healthy marriage, I don't think you can just fall "out of love" with your spouse and in love with someone else that easily.
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married…
lols at the singles thing
I gota agree with the girls =) When u are satisfied with ur spouse, when u knw that - this is it! and no matter what happens you guys have to stick together and love each other and work out the differences. The WILL to be together is an essential! The couple who find love outside their relationships are those who are lacking that bond and security from their partner.
u cant just "fall in love".....maybe it can be a crush or someone on your mind...whatever...but for feelings to develop, there has to be alot of consistent contact and communication with that person. The more you communicate with someone, the more open and comfortable you get and with that comfort come feelings and attachments.
another lovey dovey thread… thats it! I’m gonna make a thread for the single ladies RIGHT NOW!!
when you least expect it.
