Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married…
I fall in love with him everytime i find some new aspect of his personality…the way he supports me…cares for me…our interesting chit chat sessions…jokes…discussions…everything 
As a wife…i dont think i can think of anyone else ever in my life…maybe women are just made this way…this is not even a possibility 
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
I know this lady who came to me, has 4 sons, the elder is 15 year old and said, my husband is going for a second marriage, he has fallen in love with this bazaari lady
now, i know, there is no age limit for (so called) love or education..... but after 4 sons, a uncle falling in love wid a girl 20 yrs + younger then his age and fighting his inlaws his parents, the world to marry her!!!!!!!!!!!
hmmmmmmmmmm WOW
by the way, hes in Pak getting married to that girl!!!!!
^Well if he is financially and all other aspect able to do this then shariah doesn't stop him.
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that's sorry to say the biggest problem
as men in Muslim society take this 4 marriage thingy falsely.
It IS NOT like this if they have studied Quran correctly
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
they only study their rights and fail to understand the duties backed by those rights.
to enjoy some rights u have to fulfil alot of duties too !
I know this lady who came to me, has 4 sons, the elder is 15 year old and said, my husband is going for a second marriage, he has fallen in love with this bazaari lady
now, i know, there is no age limit for (so called) love or education..... but after 4 sons, a uncle falling in love wid a girl 20 yrs + younger then his age and fighting his inlaws his parents, the world to marry her!!!!!!!!!!!
hmmmmmmmmmm WOW
by the way, hes in Pak getting married to that girl!!!!!
hmmmm kuch logo ko izzat aur sharafat raas nahi atti !
His 1st wife is I am sure is to good for him and Allah wants him now to live with what he deserves. his new wife will treat him right.
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i only knew my husband about 2 weeks before we got married, but that didn;t make a difference,
i fell in love after getting married and i know that i have an honest, sensible caring man who will look after me and our family til the end.
if some one is married and falls in love with another person then there are commitment and communication issues in the marriage.
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
true
where there is a will there is a way
if one wants to keep the bond alive, it can be kept at any cost!!!!!
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i know of someone who is a pilot n got married to the love of his life n has 2 wonderful daughters...gorgeous wife, well earning profession,love n respect that he has for his wife but what has changed is that he fell in love wid another woman who was a co-pilot's wife (she has a son too)...they have gone through so much difficulty n are still together. i dunt think its based on lust as they live in different cities n although he tries hard to see her often (he does too) but to the extent i know its more than physical i think its emotional..i feel his wife is his perfect partner n he knows that but that lady is the love of his life..
how else his behavior is justified?
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^ when I hear about problems of others my own problems seems so small that's all I can say !
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married...
This seem to be the problem, if in our society a guy does all this BS "wo sub jaiz hai" and if a girl even talks to his colleague, "dekha wo to hai he awaara, bageirat" and God knows wateva....
all thanks to all those india soap dramas our society ladies have brought up their children in such a way that its all a big BS!!!!!
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^ true !
You know I was on numerous occasions being given example by my inlaws of Benazir saying that dekho woh to Pakistan ki primeminister thi phir bhi apnay shohar zardari ko saar ankhon par rekhti thi uskay qadamo main bethti thi , tum kiya cheez ho ?
Re: can a husband/wife fall in love even after they are married…
I think this pretty much says it all . It is not easy to control one’s desires if s/he is not getting it from his/her partner . Though its not legit but not uncommon either . Happens all the time .
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yes that's the thing i am telling u...
when i was getting married, i had couple of sleeveless in my dresses from my mother side
my MIL told my mum... humaray yahan bageir bazu kay kapray nahi pehantay.... i took out my lovely dresses and kept at mums :(
after 1 month, only 1 month of my marriage my hubbys small brother got married to his cousin and ALL and i mean ALL her dresses were sleeveless
WTF!!!!!!!!!!! big time WTF, i was so pissed......
I askd my husband ye kya hai, mujhay kyun roka tha.... he answered wo humari cousin hai, tum nahi...
i was like, ye kya bakwaas hai, usko sub kyun jaiz hai.....
ufffff i hate these indi serials with saas bahu n khaandaan sh!ttt