again....maybe you guys cannot differentiate between intimacy and the level of understanding required for you be in a position where you CAN call him by whatever name you feel like at the moment.....we all have different kinds of relationships with our partners.. some are informal...and some remain formal...the luxury of having an informal relationship is that you can be formal with him/her anytime you want... but if you decide to have a completely formal relationship with your husband...you sail in a different boat....
...since we dont talk in urdu with each other...on occasions maybe....its mostly everything else..including nicknames......anything but aap.....i save that for when i am angry....
I gotta reply to this:
Why use APP when angry, I dont understand this logic, when I am angry I could use many many names but not APP.
But here we go again, generalzing again, you dont really know us do you, btw u had ur Nikkah done and have not lived with him yet, things and attitudes changes when living with someone, I was in lala land just like you before Rukshati .. but its normal I think, enjoy it as much as u can.