calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

[fghd]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Hum_Hain_Lajawab

If the question is of birth, then I agree with you** but I don’t think that’s what evilmastermind had in mind** (unless EMM did). **I guess it is more of a respect thing. **

Like for example, you hear majority of muslims say that A muslimah is a muslim’s sister. Does that make her a sister. NO. It just means that you respect a muslimah. If every other muslimah was to be the sister of every other muslims, then wouldn’t she have been haraam in marriage???

yup :k:

[Afridi786]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

ammi and abu obviously, what else wud they say? call them by their first names?

[fghd]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Afridi786

ammi and abu obviously, what else wud they say? call them by their first names?

some might say khala/aunty ..uncle/khaloo or mamoo

[Afridi786]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

thats jus wrong and doesn't make sense.

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

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@Evilmastermind

some might say khala/aunty ..uncle/khaloo or mamoo

I mean as long as you don't disrespect them and give them their due rights which Allah commanded you, then it does not matter whether you call them Aunty instead of Ammi or Uncle instead of Abbu.

[fghd]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

afridi: but some ppl do ..

HHJ: good sayin :k:

[Khumar]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Hum_Hain_Lajawab

If the question is of birth, then I agree with you but I don't think that's what evilmastermind had in mind (unless EMM did). I guess it is more of a respect thing.

Like for example, you hear majority of muslims say that A muslimah is a muslim's sister. Does that make her a sister. NO. It just means that you respect her as a muslimah and protect her like you would protect your own sister. If every other muslimah was to be the sister of every other muslims, then wouldn't she have been haraam in marriage???

well yea i get what you and EMM are talking about. but respect does not mean creating a relationship where there isn't a relationship. do you get what i mean? i mean a mother is a mother and MIL is a MIL. there are other ways to address the parents. i don't see anything wrong with calling my MIL khala because to me my khalas are my secondary mothers.

i wouldn't want him (the poor fella) to call my parents ammi and abbu. i'm perfectly ok with aunty and uncle.

[hussain87]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Evilmastermind

some might say khala/aunty ..uncle*/khaloo or mamoo*

never heard a girl calling her fil by these names unless he is the real khaloo or mamoo:o ...

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

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@Khumar

well yea i get what you and EMM are talking about. but respect does not mean creating a relationship where there isn't a relationship. do you get what i mean? i mean a mother is a mother and MIL is a MIL. there are other ways to address the parents. i don't see anything wrong with calling my MIL khala because to me my khalas are my secondary mothers.

i wouldn't want him (the poor fella) to call my parents ammi and abbu. i'm perfectly ok with aunty and uncle.

I get what ur saying :)

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

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@hussain87

never heard a girl calling her fil by these names unless he is the real khaloo or mamoo:o ...

This is why English has eliminated all rishtas and limited it to just Uncle (instead of khaloo, mamoo, taya, chacha) & Aunty (instead of khala, maami, tayi, chachi, etc etc) :) . So while some prefer desi way, others prefer english way. :D

[fghd]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Afridi786

thats jus wrong and doesn't make sense.

hmm lets c if u will be able to convince ur wife about it

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Evilmastermind

hmm lets c if u will be able to convince ur wife about it

:D

[Afridi786]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

im almost certain i wont get married so dont have to worry about it.

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Afridi786

im almost certain i wont get married so dont have to worry about it.

Kyoo

[Afridi786]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

don't worry about it, is my problem.

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Afridi786

don't worry about it

Ok....but I was just wondering because there are Ahadiths that tell us to get married if you are able to do so. If you don't want to tell, that is fine and your own choice. I don't mind.

[Afridi786]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Hum_Hain_Lajawab

Ok....but I was just wondering because there are Ahadiths that tell us to get married if you are able to do so. If you don't want to tell, that is fine and your own choice. I don't mind.

i want to, i would if circumstances were a bit different, n hoping they do change inshAllah

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Afridi786

i want to, i would if circumstances were a bit different, n hoping they do change inshAllah

InshaAllah but I am a bit confused when you use the word “circumstances”

[Afridi786]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

Don't worry about it.

[Hum_Hain_Lajawab]

Re: calling ur MIL/FIL mom/dad

@Afridi786

Don't worry about it.

oookkk...:Salute: