would u want ur spouse/wife to call ur mother ‘mom’ and ur dad ‘dad’ or u can go by if he/she calls them aunty/uncle?
I prefer callin mom to my MIL …its like gettin 2 janats for free 
but then I might not ;-s
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I wouldnt mind what he wants to call my parents (he always refers to them as his parents too). I'll call his parents what he wants me to call them or what they want me to call them :)
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I wouldn't mind but calling or not calling them is not going to get us Jannah. It is our intentions and actions. Even then, our actions will not make us enter Jannah but rather the mercy of Allah. :D
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thouri dayr kay liye kush nahee hounay day saktay 
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Impulse:** but still what is ur preferences?
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Well she says i’m her beti (all her bahus are 
) and thinks of herself as my second mother..which she is.. but umm as much as i (will) love her, i donno if i can call her “ammi”
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err..thinking in advance :aq:
for me there is only one mum and one dad. the rest are aunty, uncle, khala, chacha whatever.
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**Sara n Khumar: **me n my fren were talking the same thing today and she was keep saying that no one can take her mom's place ever. She said I will respect my MIL but callin her mom is not necessary...but I kept on pushin that its better to call them mom ...
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Pehle to aap mujhe maariye nahi. Second, app zaroor khush hon aur Allah aap ko khush hi rakhe laikin maine sirf itna kaha ke we also have to follow other commandments of Allah rather than focusing on some specific things. In a nutshell, what good is calling them Mom/Dad when we ignore bigger commandments of Allah. Baaki aap zaroor khush hon, kyoo nahi!
Ps - Take ur thappar back:snooty:
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who cares !
pakistan main sab sai barha masla hi saas bahoo ka hota hai aur tum ma beti k rishtai k sooch rahai ho:snooty: …
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how do I do that 
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Simple si problem hai. Agar sab ko ISLAM ka pata ho to yeh masla hi na ho. I believe that Saas aur Bahu Maa Beti ban kar reh sakte hain provided they follow Islam. Warna ye jhagra to jhagra hi rahe ga. Islam gives you the solution:D
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i would prefer my wife to call my parents by "ammi" and "dad"
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Merely saying it would’ve done the job but oh well…
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I expected you would say that…good :k:
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Nawazish;
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id call them same as what he calls his parents i.e. mom/dad
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my mum always called her MIL khala jee. none of my other khalas called their MIL mom (well…truth be told…my nani didn’t let them call their MIL ammi :D). so i’m just following what i see. besides…she’s my in-law. she gave birth to her son, not me. 
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read lajawabs reply!
ps-i personally find that mom and dad sounds much nicer!:halo:
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If the question is of birth, then I agree with you but I don’t think that’s what evilmastermind had in mind (unless EMM did). I guess it is more of a respect thing.
Like for example, you hear majority of muslims say that A muslimah is a muslim’s sister. Does that make her a sister. NO. It just means that you respect her as a muslimah and protect her like you would protect your own sister. If every other muslimah was to be the sister of every other muslims, then wouldn’t she have been haraam in marriage???