you mean this 
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be honest with her
She is from pakistan. And from my home town.We are like conservative ppl.
Hi Knockout! What else would you want.. start conversation about this .. your home town. "Ask her have you been to ____ place? I love the food there, i like the dresses there blah blah! .. I mean just start talking about places in that home town, and then just cook up a story. My cousin is going to Pakistan, do you know any place where he could find nice suitings for me? After the conversation gets going, ask her for an email address or ask her for coffee. If she is a Pakistani conservative girl she might get scared if you, without any proper conversation, asked her out. So build up conversation first and then get the wheel rolling..."
Otherwise i do like these ideas of Jaduugar:
2. "Oh I was rushing to get here as I did not want to miss talking to you" In case you reach are late.
4. "Any plans for the weekend"? Ask that on Fridays
5. "How was your weekend? how is family etc." Ask on Mondays
6. "It's been six months or so yet we don't know much about each other.
By the way, Jaduugar where did you disappear in the 'Online Saga' thread, come back there and tell us the ending! :)
By the way, Jaduugar where did you disappear in the 'Online Saga' thread, come back there and tell us the ending! :)
Had to go to Pakistan for some emergency family situation... Am back now. waiting for thread to be unlocked so that I can put the next part.
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We are like conservative ppl.
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Do you mean you, or her too? If she is a conservative Pakistani girl I dont really think she will accept a lunch of coffee invitation from a guy at work, because that would be like a date and conservative Pakistani dont usually date? But I guess it depends on your definition of "conservative"
If there is another girl at work that you can trust maybe confide in her and have her approach the girl first. This way you can find out what she is thinking and get an idea of what she is expecting and would like to do next?
I still think my idea is good - 
Guys, he needs a polite conversation open line - you know to start off the conversation which makes it seem he likes her and wants to get to know her…
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Be careful about commenting on a coworkeer's clothing -- even if it's a compliment.
OK young Man the key Operative in solving your dilema as you yourself put it so nicely is “All Wise & Respectful”
So if your intentions are honorable and…if you are serious then the “Protocol” requires that you make your intentions known to her Parents right away…if she was raised in Pakistan or in Pakistani household that wouldbe the right thing to do!
This way non of you especially the young lady if you care about her will get into trouble with the older generation…:fifa:
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KA- there is a very simple solution for your problem and i don't even know why you had to read 67 replies just for that- GO ASK HER OUT. if you don't talk to her then how will she ever know? are you sitting around waiting for some other guy to make a move first? i dont know why you can't just go upto her and ask her to grab coffee, lunch or something with you. it should be even easier for you considering she likes you back. bari aiween marte rehte ho ke i am so gutsy and brave and bla bla and you cant even talk to the girl.
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KA, its not that hard :p . Ask her if she would like to eat lunch with you at work sometime. Like take your own lunch if you know she brings hers. Or ask her if she wants to grab a bite if she buys outside and you guys can go grab a sandwich together. It doesnt have to be all formal from day 1. Take slow, easy baby steps. Start talking about her, her family etc. Just hang by her desk for a couple mins each day and go from there. Good luck and let us know how it goes!
u made me spill my tea … khush raho
lol thats scary 
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why not just be upfront? shes probably does like u...but wants u to intiate first.....the next time u see her...just tell her how u feel...begin with salam, how are u and how are things...then just go ahead...i really like you...i admire you..i respect you....i was wondering if you would like to be more than just friends? ask her what she thinks of the idea....if she does like u , inside she'll be jumping for joy....but may not show it outwardly...then tell her that whatever decision she has made that u'll be cool with it and respect it....ask if your parents can speak to her parents, or u could speak to her parents - if shes conservative, get the family involved. tell her that u think shes special and that u think there could be a future for you both together.
good luck!!! hurry up and grab the moment, otherwise another guy could come into the picture and you'll bel elft alone
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I'm not sure but i liked it when some1 said that he really likes me and wants to talk to me ..
that is another thing that i turned him down -lol
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knockout buddy first of all congratulations on feeling this spacial about someone and second, you sound like an otherwise cool confident guy, if you're sure about even the slightest hint that she's shown signs of not being displeased by your company, you should go right ahead with any of the casual lines mentioned above like asking her schedules, plans, coffee, snack, inviting her, or asking for some contact info, you say you do know you both come from same hometown, if nothing else talk about native town, last trip, and so on. You haven't been able to talk to her more than 2-3 mins so it can be a bit far fetched to jump right ahead to a full throttle expression of your die hard love or her confessions to be readily willing to be yours forever; hopefully that will come soon, but perhaps two or three meetings later, when you've either broken enough ice or have covered enough ground to atleast manage a conversation beyond 2-3 mins or if it's not beyond 2-3 mins, you're in a position to make sure the conversation in those 2-3 mins is strategically effective, and for that the way to go is to keep it cool, slow and steady, find ways to get more comfortable with each other and then go farther.
Put it this way, at the moment there are two basic steps involved in getting to the desired stage, which is you both being together.
Step 1: Getting more comfortable, with less or no other people around, managing and having a relaxed enjoyable time together.
Step 2: Once the circumstances are ready for action making the move and talk to her about the feelings etc.
I understand how it gets nervous around special people, but stay bold. Do what you feel youve got to do, dont give a crap about the people around, it's not about them, it's about you and what you feel. Best Luck!
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I would say something jokingly, like, umm, lets see how many words i can get in before one of ur co-workers joins us, make a joke about it or joke about anything else relevant to the situation and then just ask her if she would like to meet up for coffee or something.
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Iraj: thats typical girl like. lol
FemmeFatale: No I won't say any thing jokingly, that would show that I don't have backbone!!
Ashi: Thanks I know she does like me. Good ideas.
Haris: Very good advice step 1 and 2.
per woh mirza galib ny kaha hy naa
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aashqi sabar talab aur tamana bytaab
dil kia rang karoon khon-i-giger hony tak
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Talking about home town is a good idea since she visited not too long ago.
yipeeee! .. My idea of Home Town wins! :shoaby:
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Okay, now lets hear about some progress...
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^hehe
soon soon