I understand you all are essential part of GS. It wouldn’t be same with out your wisdom.
The thing is I need your advice. I like some one. For about last 5-6 months.
I only get to see her at her work place. Its always crowded. Never get a chance to talk to her. Even If I do get a chance its only 1 to 3 sentences.
Now I like her a lot. I have no doubts in mind that, thats how she feels too about me. I have seen all the signs.
How do I get to next stage??
I am shy but when I do like some one I always put together courage to talk to that girl.
I can say important things in a polite manner.
BUT
in this situation I don’t want to lose my image before her, and I don’t want to look like a “muali” trying to pass phone number or some thing to her.
She is waiting too. I mean its getting pain full for probably both.
So now task is you ladies have to tell me 1-3 sentence which could show her my intentions towards her.
I don’t want to lose my respect as this thing has a potential of getting into some thing long lasting.
PS: Plzz don’t quote as I am going to delete it after.
Re: calling upon all wise–pretty–well respectid girls on GS.
I can’t. Its not that I am scared. Its just people all around all the time.
She loves it when I talk to her.
But its no place for a serious discussion.
We have tried talking for little longer but in 2 mins some will be there:mad:
Re: calling upon all wise--pretty--well respectid girls on GS.
Is she from a conservative background? Do you think she would be offended if you asked her out directly? Are you comfortable doing that?
If a real date seems too forward, perhaps you could suggest a few of you going out together for dessert or dinner after work. Or at least lunch during the work day. Get comfortable hanging out together, find out things you have in common, and then find a way to use one of these common interests for a more personal interaction.
If she's given you the signs and she's anything like me, she's waiting for you to initiate. But you're right, coming on too strong will make you seem like a sketchball, especially she isn't comfortable with an over date.
Re: calling upon all wise–pretty–well respectid girls on GS.
Relationships at work places are usually not the best idea. But still if you think she is really amazing than define your intension first i.e. Marriage, gf only. If it is marriage, you can just send her an email and stating your purpose and ask her what she thinks. You can proceed after that. Other way can be to ask any of her friend, who is friend with you to ask her about her current status and what she thinks about you.
Btw in which country u r in and is our future bahbi desi too ??
and good luck lalay …
PS: sorry for being nosy and commenting in this thread though u only asked for girls
I agree with Sahar - if i was her - i would expect you to come and ask me to join you for lunch - there is no harm in that! Or if you guys have intranet, why not send her a msg and tell her that you have been trying to talk to u, but due to so many people around you, havent been able to. There is no harm in that! Btw, can i ask what signs she has been relaying in order to make you think that she feels the same?:aq:
Re: calling upon all wise--pretty--well respectid girls on GS.
Dudes and girls.
She works some place else, part-time!!.
Thats where I see her.
Now every one try again.
Specially girls. What would you like to hear in 1-3 sentences. From a person you want to hear some thing from, keenly.
Re: calling upon all wise--pretty--well respectid girls on GS.
"I have been building up courage to talk to you for a long time and now that i have done that, would you like to join me for lunch?"
That will put a smile on my face!
Is she from a conservative background? Do you think she would be offended if you asked her out directly? Are you comfortable doing that?
If a real date seems too forward, perhaps you could suggest a few of you going out together for dessert or dinner after work. Or at least lunch during the work day. Get comfortable hanging out together, find out things you have in common, and then find a way to use one of these common interests for a more personal interaction.
If she's given you the signs and she's anything like me, she's waiting for you to initiate. But you're right, coming on too strong will make you seem like a sketchball, especially she isn't comfortable with an over date.
hmmmmm
2-3 years ago I have screwed up a relation by continuously asking a pakistani girl out to theaters and by keep inviting her at my house(I lived alone).
While she keep trying to get me to see her parents.
Back then my advisers were westerns.
Don't want to repeat same mistake again.
Do what sunset suggested: