calling upon all wise--pretty--well respectid girls on GS.

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Send her a balloon in a box with your name and number?

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Go with the flow, if she's interested in you and finds you attractive, she'll reply and try to prolong a conversation with you, once you initiate it. Just ask her out for coffee or something, lunch hour/break helps, and thats the ice-breaker. You are a bad boy K-A, and remember girls only like bad boys! Go for it!

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And please dont try to find her on fb/myspace etc!!!

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I agree with Sunset eyes! Lovely suggestion! Keep it simple, humbly ask her out for coffee or lunch. If she outright says no, then persue her no further but if she says yes or maybe or anything other than "no", then you'll know for sure that she's interested.

good luck! keep us posted! :)

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did u try getting her email? maybe, you could befriend her more by talking to her online and then slowly when you two get to know each other better then you can tell her about yout intentions? I personally wouldn't like someone coming up to me and asking me out to lunch and stuff...I have turned down a couple of guys like that.

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  1. I am fond of your personality
  2. I want to know little bit more about you.
  3. Will you be willing to give me this life time opportunity ?

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Good luck :jhanda:

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^ LOL no don't do that! I would get creeped out unless I really had a thing for the guy and was willing to take a chance.

I think that if she comes from a slightly conservative background she may not be okay with going out to lunch alone either, as CA implied. I think you're better off inviting her with one or two other people for the first round. Next time you can go alone, if you hit it off.

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if this was the case.
I would consider my self luckiest person alive. I will sure invite you to wedding.

Sara how do I figure out if she is on GS?

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Thanks spock, NaMaan
Saher02 yes whe is from kind of conservative family so asking her ona date is not a good idea at all. Thank SE, M03.
CA it looks lame when you are back forth for 5-6 months and than you ask for just an email.
or maybe I will. hmmm
MKD no . no asking out. But you first post gave some idea. Thanks.

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u can be frndz with her..u dont need to tell her that u like her straightaway...

p.s did i hear pretty girl?

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:D

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yes You did hear pretty.
But If you read through the whole first post you will know that its next to impossible to talk to her for over few sentences.

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1.. so...... first make sure that r u the only one in office who's getting such signs/ signals ??
2.. don't say anything to her straight away either at work place or on phone or if u guys go out somewhere.
3.. try to become her friend so that she'll open up , this way u could also give her something (presents? ) to make it obvious that u like her .
4.. if all goes well + her family is too conservative than try yr best that they won't know about yr friendship with her ( yup, they might turn down yr proposal)

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Invite her along to go out out with some work place acquitances to lunch/ coffee or a movie, and when you guys are alone tell her! but dont say 'I want to start a family!', I dont know... mmm... something a little less obvious so it doesnt scare her off

of course the other way is to get to chat to her throught msn, facebook and stuff

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u knw wht..be brave and send ur rishta ....this is the only option left

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1-oouch
3-we been talking few lines once or twice every week for over 6 months.
Very obvious that she has same feeling for me too.
I believe even people who are around they know it too. When ever she looks at me every one turn their heads and look at me too. Like "who is she looking at"
Its that obvious.

now concentrate!!!
if you were that girl what would like hearing in 2-3 sentences?

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That I will do either after talking to her. Or in few months if things stays same.

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dude its hard to talk even for 2 mins. straight.

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Some help for you

Seriously speaking, is she desi or non-desi? The reason why I am asking this question is because you said you have screwed up in the past by listening to non-desi advisers while trying to ask a desi girl out. What to do/say is different depending on the ethnicity. We don’t want you to ask “Can I meet your parents” to a non-desi girl and at the same time we don’t want to advise something that may be offensive to a desi girl.

If you don’t want to answer this, then do what Sunset Eyes suggested; Ask her to join you for lunch some time.

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She is from pakistan. And from my home town.
We are like conservative ppl. I never wanted to marry any foreigner. Once I liked pakistnai-Christian girl too.
I mean I will love to have a pakistani wife. Even if she not muslim.
But this one is muslim pkistani. good values etc etc.
And brother thanks for looking thoroughly into the issue.:slight_smile: