OK young Man the key Operative in solving your dilema as you yourself put it so nicely is “All Wise & Respectful”
So if your intentions are honorable and…if you are serious then the “Protocol” requires that you make your intentions known to her Parents right away…if she was raised in Pakistan or in Pakistani household that wouldbe the right thing to do!
This way non of you especially the young lady if you care about her will get into trouble with the older generation…:fifa: