Re: Calling all happy married girls
awww the thread has become even sweeter, Mashallah se. See there are good marriages and inlaws out there..
well, im a bit peeved at the hubz this morning but dont worry, that wont stop me from saying nice stuff about him.
hubz: someone who has really shown me my potential. He has given me a new direction to life, which is that I can basically do whatever I set my mind to. There is not a "I cant do this… " in his books. I remember a few months ago he telling me off for even saying the sentence :halo: yes ok so he told me off, but in a good light. I have never felt more secure and confident in my shell than now.. he compliments me and appreciates me with every step i take, with every responsiblity i fulfill. You dont need to be thanked for something that u should be doing.. but he will thank me. He will go out of his way to let me do what i want to do and put his goals aside… not that our goals are different. Mashallah, he is always there for family. He will support and love them all… and the relationship he has with my father.. i just LOVE him more for that. I cant even being to describe that..
My inlaws are lovely sweet people as well. My MIL will love u for a decade if u show one act of kindness.. her goal in life is to make everyone happy. Simple… she is like a lil girl in an adults body. Very sweet Mashallah se… same goes for FIL
been married for nearly 4 years, and really have had no serious downs. Nothing major… sure u have a few tid bits here and there… but they easily get fixed by venting to the hubz.. we dont ever take them further than each other. If we’re upset about something… or with someone.. we let each other know. Samjhao each other.. and get over it.
In regards to the relationship with hubz, it has taken a lot of time, patience and understanding.. compromise as well.. but more patience and understanding. It was no overnight thingy… it was something that we have tried our best to work on.. and still are.
With the inlaws… its about giving love and attention. If you give someone a bit of love, respect.. remember their bdays and things like that… it goes a loooooooooooooong way. A very long way 