Ok so our unmarried guppans r facing depressions n fears reading all horror stories. Now lets spoil them with some positivity through this thread.
So all happy wives out there start sharing one good thing abt ur partner, one abt ur MIL n ILs n one abt ur married life in general. think only positive today
ok i’ll start
One thing i like the most abt my hubby: is he has always supported my family n siblings when in trouble n helped them out of his way. He never asked or expected anything from my side (in material terms) ok thats 2 things now
One thing i like the most abt my MIL: she gets happy like a child. u give her attention like ur newborn n she’ll b in love with u all over again
One thing i like the most abt my ILs :they hav wonderful unity n alwayz stand by each other in bad times
My married life in general : If i have to go back in time and decide again i’ll still marry to same person n same family. only this time i’ll know which mistakes to avoid.
Ok so our unmarried guppans r facing depressions n fears reading all horror stories. Now lets spoil them some positivity through this thread.
So all happy wives out there start sharing one good thing abt ur partner, one abt ur MIL n ILs n one abt ur married life in general. think only positive today :)
ok i'll start
One thing i like the most abt my hubby: is he has always supported my family n siblings when in trouble n helped them out of his way. He never asked or expected anything from my side (in material terms) ok thats 2 things now :)
One thing i like the most abt my MIL: she gets happy like a child. u give her attention like ur newborn n she'll b in love with u all over again
One thing i like the most abt my ILs :they hav wonderful unity n alwayz stand by each other in bad times
My married life in general : If i have to go back in time and decide again i'll still marry to same person n same family. only this time i'll know which mistakes to avoid.
now everybody shares n no kanjoosi allowed.
n guyz pls don't spoil the mood of the thread.
Awww! You are such a sweetheart. Thank You mabrook.
My hubby: i can’t say just one thing well just to summarize.. he’s loving, he respects me and never judges me.
My IL’s : They are loving, welcoming from the very beginning, respectful of me and my family and of them all my MIL is the sweetest most caring person I’ve ever met ..mashAllah (don’t want to nazar lagaaing her )
DarkNight & Naabigh no negativity in this thread plz. let some positive , happy feelings flow around life1 atleast once in a lifetime and since u both don't look like happy married gals with anything to share go hav some chai n pastries @ the Cafe. that might fresh u up.
Niksik n masi thanks girlz. n Saddz we'll b waiting to share ur happy moments. Now where's NJMasti n NJgal n Mistral, Mystical rain, Gulab jamun and many others ....lets keep more happy posts coming up.
I dont think any one is happy after getting married. Its a heap of troubles to follow, see that tells us that humans cant live together!
Wrong. Actually if you have the right partner and you guys gel together, it makes for a wonderful marriage, and enjoyment from life. Every marriage will have some sort of issues/problems but it depends on how those issues are handled and how the couples get through the tough times. I know many happily married people, Mashallah se. As a matter of fact only know of 1 or 2 couples that are having issues, and even those arent that bad.
My husband really cares for me. When we were together, couple of moths ago, he made breakfast for me every morning....including fresh juice...after that he startd the car and put the heater in the car on so that I wouldn't sit in a "cold" car. Everytime I was washing the clothes (handwash) he sat on the floor to look at me...and he helped me to put the clothes in the washing machine etc etc. He pressed my clothes.
He is always complementing me. That you look nice in this suit..or this jewellery suits you..your eyebrows (!!) are nice....etc etc...these little things makes him the most wonderful husband in this world!!
Further whenever I'm angry or whatever he listens to me...I don't talk about his family anymore....in a negative manner...They are what they are..they can't change themselves....
MIL..is ok....1st SIl can manipulate her easily...but further MIL cares for me....2nd SIL is ok..
My hubby: I learn so much from him, he makes me a better person. He’s the most selfless and humble person i know. He is always there for me and our children, no matter what he is doing or where he is. He’s softly spoken. He’s my rock. He lets me be me; he respects my individuality. He compliments me everyday, even if i’m wearing snotty PJ’s
My In-Laws: Even though i am of a different culture/religion to my In-laws, they were and still are ever welcoming and accepting of who we are. They accept that we are raising our children OUR way. They hardly ever interfere and respect our space… and i sometimes feel a little guilty cos they treat me better than their own daughter
Married Life: You create a strong, loving and secure environment to bring up your children. You have you own personal cheerleader! When i’m exhausted/ill, he’ll take care of me and all household activities. When he comes home after a long hard day at work, i’m there to support him and talk through any niggling worries. You respect each others need for space and independance. Marriage is a union of two people who love and care for each other, warts and all. There are off days, of course, but love, commitment and repsect for each other makes you work through it.
....mashallah this is such a beautiful and "thankyoufor sharing thread".. it pleases me immensley to hear of your successes and love in your families and may Allah swt continue to shower his blessings and mercies upon you all and may he bestow happiness and success to all Ameen Sum Ameen:)
My hubby: Pushes me and drives me. He always tells me to attain one step higher. He sees my potential even though I don't. He's my constant cheerleader. He's the go getter and problem solver in our house. He's a great hands on dad and he's an excellent cook.
My MIL: On the surface people think we don't have anything in common. She has taught me the joys of simplicity and giving. She never holds a grudge and will forgive and forget.
She has dedicated her life to her kids and now even in her old age gave up her "nokar chaakar" life in Pakistan to help me raise my girls.
My married life in general: There are more good times than the bad. Totally depends on YOU whether to harp on the good ones or the bad.
well just to summarize.. he’s loving, he respects me and never judges me.
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