What actually makes you a virgin as opposed to a non-virgin? Is it the fact that you haven’t had sex? maybe.
Is sex strictly ‘intercourse’? I personally believe that the whole experience - foreplay, intercourse, after dinner mints (?) - it all constitutes sex.
I’ve met people that would do almost everything with their partners (not husbands) apart from having intercourse, just to make sure they stay a virgin. To be honest, most of these people i’ve met are women.
I can understand that there may be a psychological stigma attached to having intercourse before marraige, but isn’t it hypocritical to do other things and still call yourself a virgin?
I used to think a virgin was somebody who hadn’t had sex, but in fact it could be somebody who has had several partners, but never had intercourse..
I think we should invent a new phrase. How about.. i’m nearly a virgin
muhabatein theen kabhi apne dermian kitni…
bicha gaye hai anna hum mein doorian kitni…
abhi to toota hai dil hi teri judai mein…
girein gi hum pe abhi aur bijlian kitni…
MUGHAL ya mujhe afsar-e-shaahana banaaya hota
_.+._ ya mera taaj gadaayana banaaya hota
(^\/^\/^)
\@*@*@/ nashaa-e-ishq ka gar zarf diya tha mujh ko
{_____} umar ka tang na paimaana banaaya hota
If nobody asks no body tells ,its god & the person concerned like in most things
Cool dude ,if you were issuing certificate ,i could understand the need to calibrate ,standardise & verify but if you are not ,you are just having fun ,& so am, i
cooldude, wake up and smell the coffee! My friend and I contrived the term 'Extra Virgin' (as in extra virgin olive oil) just for this purpose. An extra virgin hasn't done anything, hasnt been touched (anywhere), hasnt had any partners and is basically a nun to the extreme. That's why we describe ourselves as that.
The literal meaning of the word has been impractical for a while now when it comes to admission. It is now based strictly on emotional rather than physical factors,especially in the west.So a girl can be a virgin even if she is listed in every guy's rolodex, as long as she is not attached to them emotionally,it can fly.
The definition of virgin depends on who needs the definition. I mean who is the customer of this piece of information called "Viriginity" Obviously its "Guys"
So guys, if the virignity of your future wife is critical, then define what you consider viriginity.
I think you are all looking for perfection. i.e. "Extra Pure Virgin Girl, untouched, unseen and un- heard by man"
But the real definition of vrigin for you will be, wher you will draw the line and say yes to an offer of marriage.
[This message has been edited by Tanhaa (edited December 28, 2001).]
You guys always take things way off topic. I’m not talking about the morality of being a virgin or if a guy should want his wife to be a virgin - I’m merely asking if you think it’s hypocritical to describe yourself as a virgin if you haven’t had intercourse but have done other stuff. Don’t read between the lines cos there isn’t anything there
Absolutely hypocritical. No doubt about it. I despise the way this issue has been made PC. You either are or you aren’t. Simple. No need for Xtra virgin either; merely confuses decent people.
**Don’t read between the lines cos there isn’t anything there
Your body language (winking) betrays a lack of consistency between what you say and what you do! Such suspicious behaviour necessitates “reading between lines”!