Re: but we have ruined our generations......
That's what you one-tracked minded men don't get - women are not all the same. We're varid and very individual. We have our preferences, so could you please leave us to do what we want with our lives, instead of butting in and telling us what the "majority" of us should be like?
may be in the WEST but not in the EAST.....i am sure !!!!!!
regarding preferences... i do not think a mother can have any greater "preference" than raising her children in a good way....