Re: but we have ruined our generations…
a man is a man is a man & and a BAD man will not realize what he is, unless something terrible happens to him.
no one is generalizing anything bad, or anyone bad - if that was what a motive, of discussion someone’s weakness and cleverness, then there are plenty of other places it could have been done.
why a Muslim- Pakistani youth forum -
you missed when i said that it is difficult to discuss a personal loss like this,
detaching yourself, denying your self, a pure and honest heart - hurting someone, emotionally, is that a good thing to you? how would you like it if it is done to you?
then it would hurt bad, right?
but i find in your tone, that you are also just as helpless and just as needy for a conscience, as any man who holds double standards, undermines women as equal partners, cheats them and then blames own sad and unfair behavior on the will of the Maker.
this is nonsense. you know it!
as for your sob story telling about the tears, may you weep many yourself, whenever that happens, reckon what you said here to me. your sense of low mentality and uneducated ness ujed pana is shining through with all its glory.
i agree, no one should not weep over someone who was so ill in his/ her resolve to be with the one person he/she clearly proposed.
ironic that you are yourself generalizing so much about women,
remember that if women and men were not made for each other, you would have NO WAJOOD of your own self!
it is also enlightening to hear from you, when women’s weeping is acceptable and when it is not.
‘men’ like yourself, want women to breathe only when you tell them to.
wow. demoralization of women is so easy for you.
east-west - is both Allah’s.
as humanity, we all have relationship issues.
it is another thing that men like to have double standards and live their sorry lives by them.
your own Allah I don’t think so, will condone you for this low mentality and a sense of ignorance that you displayed here.
again, you are not the creature for whom, any discussion topic is written and opened for an educated and ‘MUHAZEB’ exchange of perspectives.
so REFRAIN from saying anything in the posts where your caliber is failing you, at best.
last but not least, equality in the eyes of the (Allah) Maker is the Maker’s job - not yours.
as for therapy - you go do some Zikhr with a humble, non manly pride heart to Allah. and you will find it very catharctic.
may you realize how you talked back and what impression you left.
so watch your language and your sentiment, next time you comment back.
sincerely,
Dushwari