but we have ruined our generations......

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Re: but we have ruined our generations…

@Dushwari

good question.

because they are confused, and want to have control.
because they are doubtful, and do not see their double-triple standards
because they know that they can get away by making tall claims and no one will come after them to bring them to justice
because they are hollow and they are weak
because as persons, they think they are Allah, and they need to judge people
because even if they are well-meaning, they must learn not to ABANDON, MERELY BECAUSE THEY ARE SEEING WHAT THEY WANT TO SEE
because people are used to making huge alibis, to justify their own cowardliness
because there is no one really to confide in, in human relations - person to person
because opression, soon becomes the cause for more oppression
because hate is wired into the souls for untrue fears
because sometimes, people are full of deception and are not worthy of true place in others’ homes and hearts and minds
because sometimes, people who wrong others, simply take a hike, and run for their own lives, after bringing the sky down on their earlier - ‘friend’ or lover or fiancés, or a proposed future spouse (oh, bad example!!!)
because dishonest individuals thrive and they thrive on honesty of other honest people
because the mix of values, expectations, societal and faith related are lop sided, LUMPED on women only
because some people have nothing better to do, than to make others their EXPERIENCE through their playfulness
because some people are not able to accurately align their present and future priorities and their baggage from the past
because people lie and believe in lies
because some people are clever in seeing their options ARISE out of some place, and kick away the ones they promised they would want to be with
because it is too much for men to own up to their egos’ self-created debasement
because people are losing their own sense of wholeness
because people are afraid of being open and honest
because some women and men like causing sufferings to other women and men,
because they are ignoring that a higher being is watching each and every move of theirs!
because love loses its sanctity.
because the reality is, real love will forgive, even when betrayer will come to its senses
because there will always be hope in the heart, and faith that one does not have to prove to the others who doubt even faithfulness in people, to find a reason to escape
yet, it’s only time, though… when people will realize what is wrong with their own selves
& hopefully, they will stop hurting themselves

                        Well there are more than 3 billion men living in this world ...Do not equate these 3 billions with    """"""""""""  He  """""""""""""" understand !!!!!

                           By the way ...i am never in a mood of listening to your "Dukh Bari Storia "......!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  some sort of that quoted in cheap digests ...punjabi films..or PTV 80's dramas !!!!!!! :snooty: 

The love of “Wajood” always bring sadness while the love of “Zaat” always bring happiness…sooner or later… i cannot negate the importance of love but it “Automatically” developed between a woman and a man when they get married as in quran is written …before marriage…there is no " solid" love…“solid “affection and solid “tears” kyukai “”””“” Poori Dunya janti hai ansoo mai siraf Maa kai ansoo schay hotay hai “”“”“”“”“” aur bus !!!
ya shadi kai baad biwi kai apnay shaur kai liyay …yai bahain kai apnay bhai kai liyay…all are true because there is a “relationship”…and where there is no relationship …nothing happened…people mourn for a week or fortnight and on the 15 day …happy to take " Nargasi kaufaty " and " Chicken Sajji" in dinner !!!

and if something still prevails…then better to take some therapy sessions of a renowed Psychologist like Dr. Harun Rasheed etc !!!

Best Regards
Wasalam.