that’s fun! i think my folks are quite safe of my bridezilla-ish antics since i am far away from them right now … and all orders are being passed away via God-bless telecommunications 
getting married on 24th jan inshAllah
i’m not really big on “labels” … i dont care where the dress is from, as long as it looks good, or who is doing the event, as long as it looks like what i want (morrocan/spanish-courtyard theme).
and in my case though … i have the guy sorted out, and my barat dress … which is something like this thread is about 
.. the valima thing is under-discussion (i want something my mother is not so sure about … lol .. lace/net/chiffon/romance ) … i let my parents do the barat function as they want, given they let me boss around on my mehndi and valima.
jewelery … i wont really say jewels are my bestest friend … whatever it is, has to be solid and NOT dull (shiny things attract me :D)… no lariyaan type things dilly-dallying everywhere … i like a solid piece. i really love my mom’s jewelry … stuff from and uptil the early 80s! for my valima … i’d be happy with stunning diamonds in my ears and on my arms … no neck piece