Re: Bummer!
Today:
My fiance talked to his parents about it and they will not be taking any part in it financially (initially, we had proposed a joint mehndi because we thought they would be having one too - just to make it easier). Thats perfectly fine. They're very nice people though...my FIL said if she wants to have one and invites us...we will definitely come.
My fiance agrees with his parents and thats fine.
My family (esp my mom) is all for mehndis so they are rooting for it and have already started shopping around for things.
This is what I think Ill do: Ive got to compromise a little bit because so far, its been whatever I want. Initially, my mehndi guest list was turning out to be 150 people. Im going to cut that in half and only have close family and friends. We're still going to have to get a separate venue for it though. The thought of 60 people in my house in June's heat? Yikes!
Overall, we're going to make it small and intimate but very nice. :)