Reha
December 19, 2008, 4:53am
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I agree they do not have any kind of rights , they are only in laws to be , they are not her in laws yet, so they have no legal rights to tell her or her family their likes and dislikes. In fact they are people who are from Venus and she is from Mars therefore their likes and dislikes do not match therefore they should just keep quite and wait till she has been marries into their family , even then they will have no rights only her husband will have some rights and more responsibilities .
There is no concept of family and family values where we come from .
In fact she has right to tell them to bugger off as she is not married into their family yet. :hinna:
And I am sorry for telling her to compromise and to earn their respect. They do not deserve any kind of privileges for being so backward and cave people. They have to earn her respect by allowing her to do whatever she wished before and after marriage.
Mirch Bhai, I really respect my in-laws thats why Im so confused about this issue! I dnt want them to think Im someone who would scoff at charity because of my own selfish demands but thats how I feel when they asked me to donate all of the money I would spend. I feel like Im being a brat.
Im thinking of doing something small. I wont go grand and keep it modest.