Re: Bummer!
even i disagree,, let them have their fun.... and why not enjoy the wedding the way u'd like to.I mean really till the rukhsati the girl is at her parents home(should feel free to do what ever she'd like to), i myself attended a mehndi where they had a blast and the other party did nothing, i guess just had dinner at their home,with the close family.
Let us know PS, hows it goin, the date fixing process?