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Re: Build your dream spouse here

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My turn!

Looks: Has to be hot, with some facial hair (like a 5 o’clock shadow, not a mulvi daari), slightly built (not lanky nor Arnold-caliber muscles) and HAS TO BE AT LEAST 5’11, 6’ is PERFECT. He has to workout/go to the gym. And a defined jawline is…amazing. Sigh. Oh and awesome hair styled like the guy from Disney’s movie ‘Tangled’ would be amazing.
Job: Should have an undergrad but Masters is awesome. And I really love engineer-type guys since both my dad and grandfather were engineers. I love if a guy is extremely good at math and has interest in physics and science. Since I’m more into Liberal Arts/Literature I think we’d have an interesting household.
**Taste in Literature: **Don’t care as long as it isn’t erotica or some childish anime comics. I’m fine as long as he can read. In fact, I find it even hotter if he’s extremely smart/intelligent yet hates reading. That’s kinda’ fascinating.
Size: No. (if regarding body, then def. slightly built (not Jersey Shore kind of muscles) but a six-pack is…awesome. And being tall. I’m 5’7" so he MUST be taller then me)
Personality: I like a guy who is subtle, sophisticated, not the class-clown type, reserved, looks intimidating yet is cute and funny with me. I’m a hopeless romantic so he has to be one. Has to be understanding and supportive. And must be liberal, not pressuring and pushy. Let’s me be me. Oh and doesn’t take crap from other people and can defend himself. Has to also be updated with worldly affairs with a sense of humor. Respectful of me and his mom are very important. Loyal and trustworthy. MUSTS.
Religion: Don’t care as long as he’s Pakistani, tbh. (yes, I only want a Pakistani guy, unless that guy is Ryan Gosling. -_-)
Manners: Respectful, subtle, polite, knows how to get along with kids/aunties/uncles and handle a tough desi bunch. And cannot be the type who makes “bongiyaan” or acts like a clown. I dont know but that is a huge turn off. My guy has to be reserved, classy, sophisticated and the kind who opens up in front of me. I find that so hot!
Skills: Knows how to handle dumb people and put them in their perspective lanes, ahem, handy around the house (can fix stuff), MATH!, knows about things happening in the world, can put up with me, can cook a few things, knows about computers and is just an all-round well-read/smart guy with at least a 3.5 GPA. 4.0 is amazing.
Voice: Nothing shrilly/girly and like Nik said, more than the voice, I’d focus on the what he says.

Ahem, so that took a while but you know what? I just realized my fiance is all that above (even the things I consider a bonus, he has. O.O) , and I didn’t write it keeping him in mind so I consider myself super-freaking lucky. insert partially creepy grin

You just described my hubby! except for the Tangled hairstyle part and that he is not that interested in having a six-pack abs.