^ u knw there have been times when i m tried of doing everything...n cant take it anymore n i tell my brothers and ammi to help me out. which they do but thn there are times when they dont ...and nothing gets done. i guess they know i will do it eventually and i knw if i dont do it no one will.
I do everything because i feel like i have to...and u knw once i asked Sam to take care of something and asked him why doesn't he help out...u knw what he said...its cuz "i love to do everything and want to handle everything," i told him NO...its becasue if i dont no one will.
i dont knw what ll happen once i m married :(
LOL Thats the age-old phenomenon (across all cultures) - (generally) guys don't do it because they know girls will take care of it. You will really have to give up (not just pretend for one or two times) before they will realize that you mean business and they will pick up the slack.
Can't really blame 'em ... why work? when someone else will do it for you ... its normal reaction