ask your sisters to find a guy, i mean a husband themselves?
why would you, or why would you not?
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good Q! im curious to see the answers 
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if they kno a decent person who they think they are compatible with then i wldn't have a problem with that ... what i wldn't do thou is to tell my sis that ok its time for u to get married now go find a guy for urself
if they kno a decent person who they think they are compatible with then i wldn't have a problem with that ... what i wldn't do thou is to tell my sis that ok its time for u to get married now go find a guy for urself
you never gonna ask her even if she is her thirties or if she is approaching thirties/forties i mean she is in her late twenties.
btw, when brother get married, their priorities are shifted. do you realize this aspect?
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My sis liked some one since she was little. I knew it. He was most amazing person. They are married with kids. Sis love him to death. He respects her(why wouldn’t he she knows how to use weapons 
)
If I have to do it all over.hmmmmmmmm
Guy have to be neat and clean. Should respect my sister and her boundaries OR I would kick his ass back into time and space–to the time he was born.
Then again, I would be worried sick if my sister has to scan through men. Women can nag men to death, but they don’t have a clue how many ways man can take advantage of them.
And if they have to go out–they have to take me with them 
what a pimp I am
you never gonna ask her even if she is her thirties or if she is approaching thirties/forties i mean she is in her late twenties.
btw, when brother get married, their priorities are shifted. do you realize this aspect?
no i won't ... because being a brown family we have bounderies of the things that we can't talk with each other and tellin my sister to go find someone for herself falls outside of those bounderies ... i'm not sayin its right but thats how it is in my household ... and its the same for me too my sister is never ognna tell me to go find a grl for myself
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I guess it depends on factors such as age (if the girl is in hgih school o college as opposed to being in late 20s, done with education etc), the rleationship status of te brother etc
My own brother wouldn’t tell me to go find a guy myself, but he’ll be happy with whatever happens.
Now here’s a question: would you guys want to hook up ur sisters (marriage wise of course) with ur friends ?
hmmmm
well guys hang out with all kind of morons. So I don’t know.
How ever once my best friend’s mum told me when they were looking for my friends sis hubby they consider my family too. I was her age and she got married to guy 5years older then me.
I secretly liked her, A lot. That day I went home and kicked my own behind.
But answer your question, we were friends with many families similar to ours. So It would not be such a big issue If any of them had pursued a proposal.
But a guy high on bollyWood looking for some one to sing songs with, :nono:
That calls for ass-kicking.
Why on earth would someone ask their sisters to go find a guy for themselves? 
They are (ideally) sensible mature individuals capable of making their own decisions. If they want to find someone, they will. If they dont, they wont. If they like someone or are involved with someone, just like I could be involved with a girl, they have every right to move ahead in the proper way.
I find this question rather silly.
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good one janwaar..i agree 100%
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^ I agree too .
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interesting topic.
tune changes when it is about your sister.
ask your sisters to find a guy, i mean a husband themselves?
why would you, or why would you not?
Been there - done it
one of them happily got married to the guy she met in her medical school - and younger one stopped talking by saying ' Ap humhay ayse wase larki samjte haiN '
Don't know but - Sala karo tu masla na karo tu masla :)
What the ape man said.
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what a question, what a Thread, what a poster...the new year begins with a bing bang in L&R
:k:
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I told my brother to go and find someone for me. He said you find him urself. I promise excellent arrangement on ur wedding plus full night bhangra with friends army 
Actually it may be awkward but not silly.
Time has changed, 20 years ago as long as we find a KALA Bhoot or Langoor with good earning potentials for our sisters/daughters for them they would never question us (may be grateful also). And they willing spend the like at their as glorified NoukRANI (fooling themselves as RANI) for life.
But now young peoples aspiration has change, there is so much emphasis on personal / mental compatibility, it is very hard for someone else to make a decision.
It would be more comfortable if my girl come and tell me about someone, and i restrict myself to do proper due diligence and give my verdict.
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No i will not ask my sister to find a husband for herself.
But i will respect / care for her likeness/dis likeness. in fact i have already supported my sister's wishes twice once when she did not liked the proposed rishta and the other time when she liked the proposal. She is engaged with a person she like and I am happy for her.
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my sister did, no biggy.