Re: Brother has had sexual contact with sisters - what now?
My father went outside and spoke with the older sister today. She told him everything by herself, and the disgust that built up as a result caused him to take action. He is offering my sisters moral support, making sure that my mother does the same, and no longer keeping quiet about what happened to the victims. The girls are told to speak up. The younger one said she was scared, but eventually talked.
As for my brother, my father isn’t getting him admitted to a boarding school, but says if someone else does it (my mother or I), he will cover the costs. I don’t know if this is all talk. The brother can’t sleep in the same room as the others, can’t converse with them, and was told that he no longer has family except my mother (and I). Right now his belongings and him are in the furthest room, with one of the doors leading through the kitchen to the other rooms being locked/barricaded soon.
His actions were vile, listening to my sisters makes him appear as a terrible sex offender and rapist. Being alone in that room, he is going to go mad. I’m trying to tell him that his only way out is education, and to make sure he never repeats anything remotely similar. I don’t know to what extent his motivation will be.
The problem with these military boarding schools is that there are limited seats, especially for outsiders, and the merit is high. My brother’s grades have been well below what they require, so getting an admission is difficult.
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