Hi bhenjee
I totally understand where u r coming from. These days ppl are selfish and think its about number one and the rest can deal with it.
its obvious ur bro and his gl love each other. maybe u shud say to your brother in 2 years u two can get engaged and after u graduate and get a job u can get married that way the proposal will look good rather than going to his parents house and saying we want a rishta for a school kid.
we are families that like to stick together. right now its fun, sneaking around for them, seeign each other but marriage is tough and boring and hard work for some so yeah they def have to be mature to enter that.
u shud speak to your younger sister and tell her not to meet her bcoz i see a lot of brother girlfriends that encourage their bf younger sisters to date so they can both have this little secret between them. and yes your sis will say if bro can do it why cant i.
i hope theres a happily ever after for all of you guys.
i dont think u shud tell ur parents but isntead speak to your brother and sister and try to be a friend and show them you are on their side but you are wiser and see thigns differently. and right now they shud enjoy education etc.
say to your bro if you love her you need to prove you are capable of taking care of her.
i am scared if you keep refusing to go for the rishta they will run away and not do your parents any good for their health.
x