Re: brother and his irritating girlfriend
Interesting read. Just thought I would add my bit in.
Firstly, I don’t know how old someone is if they’re in the 10th grade, but judging by the other posts I’m assuming your sister is old enough to be exposed to relationships and the matter of dating. Whether this influences her in such a way that she too does what your brother is doing, that is a decision that she will make and you can’t really change.
I don’t see why your parents won’t allow him to get married. If we take the viewpoint of our religion it would be best to have them married asap. It is clear that he loves her and nothing that your family say or do will stop him from being in a relationship with her. So why not make things legit?
My personal opinion is that you feel left out. Probably because he has taken the little sister to meet the gf. Why not get to know her. If she is good for your brother, then persuade your parents that your brother wants to marry her anyway so why delay it any further.
If you don’t like her for no good reason, then that is wrong and you probably need to take a step back and look at the way you are behaving towards your brother and his gf and do something about it. Why be bitter about something that makes your brother happy?