Umm no. That actually shows that they care for what I’d have to deal with later in life. My sil’s engagement lasted 4 years. My mil still hasn’t stopped telling me how she never “dated” her fiance and never went out for private dinners!! I hated my parents then for always calling me up after it was dark and asking me to head back home, or to be on the way. But now I can’t thank them enough for it!! It has nothing to do with trust issues. Plus, trust issues arrise when you’re doing things behind their back with ppl they don’t approve of. Not when you’re sending them out with your fiance (who took your permission) !