Broken Engagement

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Re: Broken Engagement

@PyariCgudia

I think that’s a major question to ask and be honest with yourself about. Ask the person “When you get upset, what do you do?”

And some people will say, I walk away and don’t talk to the person until the next day.

Some will say they get angry and even yell.

Etc etc. I mean it varies. I am verbose and I will tell a person exactly how I feel, and then I’ll go on and on about it, and then I’ll blog about it ( )

So if I meet a guy who emotionally shuts off and walks away, I just get excessively upset about that - it’s like a huge slap in the face. And really hurtful. But then that person probably thinks I’m a monster for being open about my feelings and telling them exactly what I think.

haha we’re the same person. The way I treat people I truly dislike is to ice them out completely so when someone gives me the cold shoulder it drives me INSANE. Being married to someone like that would drive me crazy.

@Zamzam123

I know but I keep thinking had his mum not rang me out the blue and said what she said none of this would of happened. At present my minds thinking about the good times I shared with him and thinking of him to be perfect. But your right had he cared enough and stood up for me things would of maybe been different.

Yeah that’s true, but his biggest fault is that if he “loved” you, he did nothing to alleviate the situation. Best case, he’s a momma’s boy. I’m all for respecting your elders/mothers but…that’s not someone that you want to necessarily be married to. Again, coming from a similar situation. First guy was 30 and what momma told him to do he did. Whereas my fiance now, I know he has my back. We’ve had some up and downs over some stuff but he’s always handled it so that I don’t look like the bad guy.