kakee
November 6, 2014, 1:56pm
41
Re: Broken Engagement
I understand everyone is different as to how we deal with certain situations.. Me and him were together for over a year, he was the first ever person in my life. How can someone say they love you one minute and can’t be without you then just turn their back just like that. Recently a few months ago he got intouch saying he wish he had handled things differently and wanted everything back., but at the same time he was telling me it was all my fault why did I make an issue about what his mum said. I never ever told my family about any of our conversations yet he always did and the one time I did mention to my mum what his mum said he didn’t even bother facing me and told me over the phone it’s over.!
The only reason I did tell my family is because I was scared I didn’t know why she said what she did. I felt threatened and felt she was breaking us up and that’s exactly what she did. It hurts to when someone you truly trust and plan your life with leaves you heart broken and shattered. It feels like I’m never going to find anyone like him even tho he turned out to be so heartless.
At present I’v got another proposal, but I can’t stop thinking about him. Even tho this new rishta seems oky I’m comparing the two and feel he was the one for me.
You need to forget about that horrible guy. He was not for you. You want to be trapped in an abusive relationship? I know it’s hard to get used to not talking/seeing him, but you have to fill that void with something else.
Please, this is just a phase. You’ll get used to it.